You look better than I did after my son was born. You both look a bit tired (quite understandable). When my son was born I had to sleep over the two nights in the hospital (c-section for my son as well) and the bed/chair thingy they had in the room must have been from a medival torture chamber.

Anyways, congratulations and get used to being tired. You wont sleep through the night for some time now, but I'm guessing you expected that. Especially you, for the next few days. You'll get to be Mr. Mom for that time changing the diapers and carrying little Katie around. And yes, enjoy every second, they grow up very fast.

Whadya mean "Again"? I do all the cooking as it is and we hire out most of the cleaning.

As it should be (the men cooking part I mean).

Whadya mean "Again"? I do all the cooking as it is and we hire out most of the cleaning.
Posted by James Joyner | January 1, 2009 | 06:51 pm | Permalink

You hire out the cleaning? Wait til Dave Schuler finds out what an elitist you are. He'll quit the site and sit around in Confederate Flag PJs for three consecutive days.

I concur with everything everyone else has said about c-section recovery. She'll depend on you to help her in and out of bed - that was the tough one for me.

And she'll cry for no reason at random times and that will last for a few weeks at least. You'll both be baffled by that - it's just the hormones.

She will add a whole new dimension to the definition of Love for you and Kim.

It was 22 years ago that I had my c-section. But I remember vividly the pain of simply evacuating, coughing and laughing. You just don't know what those muscles do for you until you don't have them available! But, as I recall, I mended pretty quickly.

My hospital fed me steak and omelets and all the green beans and grapes I could eat...in addition to not having to do anything but attend to the baby and sleep myself.

She's darling, by the way, the baby. What's the dowry situation?

Oh, and buy an electric bottle warmer to keep in the same room as the baby.

Keep in mind, and I'm sure the docs will give you the rundown if they haven't, but you are coming home with two babies tomorrow. Your wife will not be allowed to lift anything or do much at all for some time. Even the simple stuff like standing from a sitting position will require thought from both of you and she's gotta think how to do it with no abdominal muscle usage.

Just a little heads up and congrats again.

And just because she gets to go home doesn't mean mommy can cook and clean for you again ok?

LOL

Sweet when they're asleep, aren't they?