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		<title>By: Bithead</title>
		<link>http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/archives/mommy_slur/comment-page-1/#comment-983021</link>
		<dc:creator>Bithead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 17:17:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ya know, if you had a bloody clue about how Google ads work... or anything else, for that matter, I&#039;d be pissed.

As it is, I&#039;m merely amused as one would be watching a slapstick reel.

Suffice it to say, I don&#039;t directly control what ads run.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ya know, if you had a bloody clue about how Google ads work... or anything else, for that matter, I'd be pissed.</p>
<p>As it is, I'm merely amused as one would be watching a slapstick reel.</p>
<p>Suffice it to say, I don't directly control what ads run.</p>
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		<title>By: anjin-san</title>
		<link>http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/archives/mommy_slur/comment-page-1/#comment-982752</link>
		<dc:creator>anjin-san</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 02:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bitsy, could not help noticing the ad for &quot;free government grants you don&#039;t have to pay back&quot; over at &quot;your place&quot;. 

Advertising government giveaways on your site? I always suspected you were not about making anything but noise. Thanks for the confirmation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bitsy, could not help noticing the ad for "free government grants you don't have to pay back" over at "your place". </p>
<p>Advertising government giveaways on your site? I always suspected you were not about making anything but noise. Thanks for the confirmation.</p>
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		<title>By: Bithead</title>
		<link>http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/archives/mommy_slur/comment-page-1/#comment-982499</link>
		<dc:creator>Bithead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 16:42:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think James understands that if upping the hitcounts alone were the issue, I&#039;d have dropped a link to my place in the post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think James understands that if upping the hitcounts alone were the issue, I'd have dropped a link to my place in the post.</p>
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		<title>By: sam</title>
		<link>http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/archives/mommy_slur/comment-page-1/#comment-982409</link>
		<dc:creator>sam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 12:56:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Steve Benen of all people,wrote a post yesterday which had me reaming him a new one at my place.

One of the guys that writes at my place, DavidL&lt;/blockquote&gt;

You got your ad rates posted someplace, JJ?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Steve Benen of all people,wrote a post yesterday which had me reaming him a new one at my place.</p>
<p>One of the guys that writes at my place, DavidL</p></blockquote>
<p>You got your ad rates posted someplace, JJ?</p>
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		<title>By: anjin-san</title>
		<link>http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/archives/mommy_slur/comment-page-1/#comment-982265</link>
		<dc:creator>anjin-san</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 04:45:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Well, that&#039;s what&#039;s so very amazing about it. You do it so seldom as to belie having the ability.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Thats your comeback? LOL, thanks, its been a rough week and I needed a laugh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Well, that's what's so very amazing about it. You do it so seldom as to belie having the ability.</p></blockquote>
<p>Thats your comeback? LOL, thanks, its been a rough week and I needed a laugh.</p>
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		<title>By: Bithead</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bithead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 03:47:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Ummm, yea. Its called &quot;thinking for yourself&quot;.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Well, that&#039;s what&#039;s so very amazing about it.  You do it so seldom as to belie having the ability.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Ummm, yea. Its called "thinking for yourself".</p></blockquote>
<p>Well, that's what's so very amazing about it.  You do it so seldom as to belie having the ability.</p>
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		<title>By: anjin-san</title>
		<link>http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/archives/mommy_slur/comment-page-1/#comment-982225</link>
		<dc:creator>anjin-san</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 03:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know bit, you are really quite the ideologue. You remind me of that Andrei Gromyko dude.

&lt;blockquote&gt;It is that. But it&#039;s been what the Democrats have been running on for the last few generations.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

As opposed to the crap the GOP runs on. Crap is a major driver in politics...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know bit, you are really quite the ideologue. You remind me of that Andrei Gromyko dude.</p>
<blockquote><p>It is that. But it's been what the Democrats have been running on for the last few generations.</p></blockquote>
<p>As opposed to the crap the GOP runs on. Crap is a major driver in politics...</p>
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		<title>By: anjin-san</title>
		<link>http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/archives/mommy_slur/comment-page-1/#comment-982222</link>
		<dc:creator>anjin-san</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 03:10:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Amazing, though, that you seem to be running against it&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Ummm, yea. Its called &quot;thinking for yourself&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Amazing, though, that you seem to be running against it</p></blockquote>
<p>Ummm, yea. Its called "thinking for yourself".</p>
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		<title>By: hln</title>
		<link>http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/archives/mommy_slur/comment-page-1/#comment-982206</link>
		<dc:creator>hln</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 02:33:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I pick...no day care. We&#039;ll keep them at home.

Nice to be able to say that. If more of us did, the country would be better off.

hln</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I pick...no day care. We'll keep them at home.</p>
<p>Nice to be able to say that. If more of us did, the country would be better off.</p>
<p>hln</p>
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		<title>By: just me</title>
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		<dc:creator>just me</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 02:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well I think the direction of this thread sort of proves the point.

Here we sit judging the quality of a person&#039;s mothering based on the choices her children make.  The reality is that as kids get older they sometimes make choices that come with long term consequences, how they deal with those choices is far more important.

I know three very fine upstanding adult women who all got pregnant in their teens.  They all three had very good mothers-one of these ladies was like a grandmother to me, and I would trust her to watch my children without thinking about it.

Each of those women married the fathers of their children and all have been married 15 or more years.

Teenagers sometimes get pregnant.  Teenagers of some very good parents and very good people sometimes get pregnant.  Sometimes birth control fails (I happen to be the mom of two very wonderful children that were conceived while I was taking birth control pills).  

As parents we all have our desires for our children and the order we would like them to do things in-but kids have minds of their own and sometimes don&#039;t follow that path.  I don&#039;t think it is some failure on the part of the parents-at least not always.

I also think dutchmarbel made a very good point.  While we sit in judgement on the women and judge their worthiness as parents, why aren&#039;t we discussing the worthiness of their fathers or the fathers of other politicians children?  

Obama has been all but an absent father while running for office the last two years.  While he served in the senate his two girls lived in Chicago.  If his daughters eventually have public problems is it Michelle&#039;s fault or Barak&#039;s?  Is there a way to tell?  Should we be assigning fault?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well I think the direction of this thread sort of proves the point.</p>
<p>Here we sit judging the quality of a person's mothering based on the choices her children make.  The reality is that as kids get older they sometimes make choices that come with long term consequences, how they deal with those choices is far more important.</p>
<p>I know three very fine upstanding adult women who all got pregnant in their teens.  They all three had very good mothers-one of these ladies was like a grandmother to me, and I would trust her to watch my children without thinking about it.</p>
<p>Each of those women married the fathers of their children and all have been married 15 or more years.</p>
<p>Teenagers sometimes get pregnant.  Teenagers of some very good parents and very good people sometimes get pregnant.  Sometimes birth control fails (I happen to be the mom of two very wonderful children that were conceived while I was taking birth control pills).  </p>
<p>As parents we all have our desires for our children and the order we would like them to do things in-but kids have minds of their own and sometimes don't follow that path.  I don't think it is some failure on the part of the parents-at least not always.</p>
<p>I also think dutchmarbel made a very good point.  While we sit in judgement on the women and judge their worthiness as parents, why aren't we discussing the worthiness of their fathers or the fathers of other politicians children?  </p>
<p>Obama has been all but an absent father while running for office the last two years.  While he served in the senate his two girls lived in Chicago.  If his daughters eventually have public problems is it Michelle's fault or Barak's?  Is there a way to tell?  Should we be assigning fault?</p>
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		<title>By: Bithead</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bithead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 01:16:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;What a load of crap&lt;/blockquote&gt;

It is that. But it&#039;s been what the Democrats have been running on for the last few generations.

Amazing, though, that you seem to be running against it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>What a load of crap</p></blockquote>
<p>It is that. But it's been what the Democrats have been running on for the last few generations.</p>
<p>Amazing, though, that you seem to be running against it.</p>
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		<title>By: anjin-san</title>
		<link>http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/archives/mommy_slur/comment-page-1/#comment-982155</link>
		<dc:creator>anjin-san</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 00:16:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;it usually is driven by some sort of class envy that demands someone can&#039;t have something unless everyone can have it.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

What a load of crap. Not surprising though, it is a typical fallback for the right when they cannot address this issue intelligently. Our friend bithead uses it frequently.

I don&#039;t have any big class issues, I was pretty much born into the winners circle and grew up in one of the wealthiest communities in the country. I would like to see people who did not get all the breaks I did have a shot too. &quot;Class envy&quot; does not figure into it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>it usually is driven by some sort of class envy that demands someone can't have something unless everyone can have it.</p></blockquote>
<p>What a load of crap. Not surprising though, it is a typical fallback for the right when they cannot address this issue intelligently. Our friend bithead uses it frequently.</p>
<p>I don't have any big class issues, I was pretty much born into the winners circle and grew up in one of the wealthiest communities in the country. I would like to see people who did not get all the breaks I did have a shot too. "Class envy" does not figure into it.</p>
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		<title>By: charles austin</title>
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		<dc:creator>charles austin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2009 23:32:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Our ideals are like the stars, we cannot reach them but they are an excellent aid in steering our course.

I know it must get tiresome to read but since some still haven&#039;t grasped the concept, the perfect is the enemy of the good.  I prefer freedom and striving tomake our society more free with all the good and bad that entails than all efforts to make society more equitable, whatever the hell that means, especially since it usually is driven by some sort of class envy that demands someone can&#039;t have something unless everyone can have it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our ideals are like the stars, we cannot reach them but they are an excellent aid in steering our course.</p>
<p>I know it must get tiresome to read but since some still haven't grasped the concept, the perfect is the enemy of the good.  I prefer freedom and striving tomake our society more free with all the good and bad that entails than all efforts to make society more equitable, whatever the hell that means, especially since it usually is driven by some sort of class envy that demands someone can't have something unless everyone can have it.</p>
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		<title>By: anjin-san</title>
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		<dc:creator>anjin-san</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2009 22:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;So, &#039;Equal Opportunity&#039; is no longer the end all and be-all Anjin?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

What are you carrying on about? Here on planet earth, equal opportunity is a nice concept, but that is all it is. 

Should we work to make our society more equitable? Of course. Will we ever get there? Probably not. Its something worth striving for, but hardly the center of the Democratic political universe.

To say it is some sort of &quot;be all end all&quot;  is just a regurgitation of right wing radio talking points. Do try harder.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>So, 'Equal Opportunity' is no longer the end all and be-all Anjin?</p></blockquote>
<p>What are you carrying on about? Here on planet earth, equal opportunity is a nice concept, but that is all it is. </p>
<p>Should we work to make our society more equitable? Of course. Will we ever get there? Probably not. Its something worth striving for, but hardly the center of the Democratic political universe.</p>
<p>To say it is some sort of "be all end all"  is just a regurgitation of right wing radio talking points. Do try harder.</p>
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		<title>By: Bithead</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bithead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2009 21:56:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;They wouldn&#039;t have the same poll with for instance Bill Clinton, Joe Biden, Barak Obama and John McCain though all of them were fathers.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Very true, Dutch. Telling, that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>They wouldn't have the same poll with for instance Bill Clinton, Joe Biden, Barak Obama and John McCain though all of them were fathers.</p></blockquote>
<p>Very true, Dutch. Telling, that.</p>
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