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		<title>By: Francis W. Porretto</title>
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		<dc:creator>Francis W. Porretto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 12:27:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>“The husband who’s less physically attractive than his wife is getting something more than maybe he can expect to get,” McNulty told LiveScience. “He’s getting something better than he’s providing at that level. So he’s going to work hard to maintain that relationship.”

Bah. He and she value very different things, and value them by different scales, as well. Atop that, beauty is a deteriorating asset -- perhaps less so than in the past, but it still fades over time -- whereas earning power and a responsible character are very durable. If the trade were made explicit, rather than papered over with romantic fiction, he&#039;d clearly be trading a lifetime promise of sustenance and fidelity  -- bequeathed both to his wife and any children she might bear by him -- for a few years of proximity to a superficial sexual attraction.

Let&#039;s hope and pray there&#039;s more to the match than those elements alone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“The husband who&rsquo;s less physically attractive than his wife is getting something more than maybe he can expect to get,” McNulty told LiveScience. “He&rsquo;s getting something better than he&rsquo;s providing at that level. So he&rsquo;s going to work hard to maintain that relationship.”</p>
<p>Bah. He and she value very different things, and value them by different scales, as well. Atop that, beauty is a deteriorating asset -- perhaps less so than in the past, but it still fades over time -- whereas earning power and a responsible character are very durable. If the trade were made explicit, rather than papered over with romantic fiction, he'd clearly be trading a lifetime promise of sustenance and fidelity  -- bequeathed both to his wife and any children she might bear by him -- for a few years of proximity to a superficial sexual attraction.</p>
<p>Let's hope and pray there's more to the match than those elements alone.</p>
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		<title>By: Bachbone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bachbone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 06:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ms. Roberts was never my idea of a beautiful woman even before she opened her too liberal mouth and spouted anti-Bush, leftist garbage.  I don&#039;t know Mr. Lovett&#039;s political leanings, but perhaps she thought he was on her side of that fence when she married him?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ms. Roberts was never my idea of a beautiful woman even before she opened her too liberal mouth and spouted anti-Bush, leftist garbage.  I don't know Mr. Lovett's political leanings, but perhaps she thought he was on her side of that fence when she married him?</p>
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		<title>By: Maggie Mama</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maggie Mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 23:29:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;Bill can&#039;t keep his pants zipped. Bill can&#039;t keep his mouth zipped.

 &lt;/em&gt; Hillary smiled coyly thinking about how &lt;em&gt;Bill resurrected Bosnia after it had quietly faded away.  Now &lt;strong&gt;she &lt;/strong&gt;was going to have the entire Steelers&#039; offensive line to take that damn loose cannon down once and for all.&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Bill can't keep his pants zipped. Bill can't keep his mouth zipped.</p>
<p> </em> Hillary smiled coyly thinking about how <em>Bill resurrected Bosnia after it had quietly faded away.  Now <strong>she </strong>was going to have the entire Steelers' offensive line to take that damn loose cannon down once and for all.</em></p>
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		<title>By: James Joyner</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Joyner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 21:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Granted the real Lovett is not finding difficulty attracting women (or men), it still must be of some shame to him to note that a great many people in America automatically thought of his marriage with Roberts as emblematic of the homely man-beautiful women coupling.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Probably just a chuckle.  A year or so after his divorce from Roberts, he wrote &quot;That&#039;s Right (You&#039;re Not From Texas)&quot; which featured this lyric:

&lt;ul&gt;See I was born and raised in Texas
And it means so much to me
Though my girl comes from down in Georgia
We were up in Tennessee

And as we were driving down the highway
She asked me baby what&#039;s so great
How come you&#039;re always going on
About your Lone Star State

I said that&#039;s right you&#039;re not from Texas
That&#039;s right you&#039;re not from Texas
That&#039;s right you&#039;re not from Texas
But Texas wants you anyway

That&#039;s right you&#039;re not from Texas
That&#039;s right you&#039;re not from Texas
That&#039;s right you&#039;re not from Texas
But Texas wants you anyway

Oh the road it looked so lovely
As she stood there on the side
And she grew smaller in my mirror
As I watched her wave goodbye&lt;/ul&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Granted the real Lovett is not finding difficulty attracting women (or men), it still must be of some shame to him to note that a great many people in America automatically thought of his marriage with Roberts as emblematic of the homely man-beautiful women coupling.</p></blockquote>
<p>Probably just a chuckle.  A year or so after his divorce from Roberts, he wrote "That's Right (You're Not From Texas)" which featured this lyric:</p>
<ul>See I was born and raised in Texas<br />
And it means so much to me<br />
Though my girl comes from down in Georgia<br />
We were up in Tennessee</p>
<p>And as we were driving down the highway<br />
She asked me baby what's so great<br />
How come you're always going on<br />
About your Lone Star State</p>
<p>I said that's right you're not from Texas<br />
That's right you're not from Texas<br />
That's right you're not from Texas<br />
But Texas wants you anyway</p>
<p>That's right you're not from Texas<br />
That's right you're not from Texas<br />
That's right you're not from Texas<br />
But Texas wants you anyway</p>
<p>Oh the road it looked so lovely<br />
As she stood there on the side<br />
And she grew smaller in my mirror<br />
As I watched her wave goodbye</ul>
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		<title>By: John Ellis Rogers</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Ellis Rogers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 21:07:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James: I&#039;m sure I was not the only one to get a chuckle out of seeing the Lovett-Roberts picture that you used to exemplify the topic of the post.

After thinking about it for a moment, had I written on this topic, I would have chosen to use the same picture.

Granted the real Lovett is not finding difficulty attracting women (or men), it still must be of some shame to him to note that a great many people in America automatically thought of his marriage with Roberts as emblematic of the homely man-beautiful women coupling.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James: I'm sure I was not the only one to get a chuckle out of seeing the Lovett-Roberts picture that you used to exemplify the topic of the post.</p>
<p>After thinking about it for a moment, had I written on this topic, I would have chosen to use the same picture.</p>
<p>Granted the real Lovett is not finding difficulty attracting women (or men), it still must be of some shame to him to note that a great many people in America automatically thought of his marriage with Roberts as emblematic of the homely man-beautiful women coupling.</p>
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		<title>By: another matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>another matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 19:40:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>According to Steven Pinker&#039;s book &quot;How the Mind Works&quot;, the ultimate evolutionary strategy for a human female is to get impregnated by a healthy alpha male and then convince another male to stay with her for the long term in order to successfully raise the offspring to maturity.  In short, get pregnant for the best genes, and get married for the most supportive husband.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>According to Steven Pinker's book "How the Mind Works", the ultimate evolutionary strategy for a human female is to get impregnated by a healthy alpha male and then convince another male to stay with her for the long term in order to successfully raise the offspring to maturity.  In short, get pregnant for the best genes, and get married for the most supportive husband.</p>
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		<title>By: Paul Barnes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul Barnes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 19:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As an not-so-attractive young man, all I can saw is: excellent.

Now I just have to wait for the ladies to line up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As an not-so-attractive young man, all I can saw is: excellent.</p>
<p>Now I just have to wait for the ladies to line up.</p>
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		<title>By: Bithead</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bithead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 19:22:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I know... I was just playing with it a little. You know me...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I know... I was just playing with it a little. You know me...</p>
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		<title>By: James Joyner</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Joyner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 19:08:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;your picture seems to argue against your theory, given that they&#039;re not married anymore, if memory serves.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Heh. Well, incredibly rich, famous people aren&#039;t useful illustrations of much of anything. While a woman who looked like Julia Roberts may have been outside the league of a normal dude who looked like Lyle Lovett, the &lt;em&gt;actual&lt;/em&gt; Lyle Lovett presumably wasn&#039;t having difficulty attracting the ladies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>your picture seems to argue against your theory, given that they're not married anymore, if memory serves.</p></blockquote>
<p>Heh. Well, incredibly rich, famous people aren't useful illustrations of much of anything. While a woman who looked like Julia Roberts may have been outside the league of a normal dude who looked like Lyle Lovett, the <em>actual</em> Lyle Lovett presumably wasn't having difficulty attracting the ladies.</p>
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		<title>By: Bithead</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bithead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 18:25:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, that does seem reasonable.
Yet, the example you chose for your picture seems to argue against your theory, given that they&#039;re not married anymore, if memory serves. 

(chuckle)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, that does seem reasonable.<br />
Yet, the example you chose for your picture seems to argue against your theory, given that they're not married anymore, if memory serves. </p>
<p>(chuckle)</p>
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		<title>By: DC Loser</title>
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		<dc:creator>DC Loser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 18:09:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seems reasonable to me too.  Also &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200803/single-marry&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;this &lt;/a&gt;from the Atlantic a few months ago.  But then again, check out the eternal flame wars on Craigs List Rant &#039;n Rave on the unrealistic standards single women have for men.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seems reasonable to me too.  Also <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200803/single-marry" rel="nofollow">this </a>from the Atlantic a few months ago.  But then again, check out the eternal flame wars on Craigs List Rant 'n Rave on the unrealistic standards single women have for men.</p>
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