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Steven L. Taylor
About Steven L. Taylor
Steven L. Taylor is a Professor of Political Science and a College of Arts and Sciences Dean. His main areas of expertise include parties, elections, and the institutional design of democracies. His most recent book is the co-authored A Different Democracy: American Government in a 31-Country Perspective. He earned his Ph.D. from the University of Texas and his BA from the University of California, Irvine. He has been blogging since 2003 (originally at the now defunct Poliblog). Follow Steven on Twitter

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  1. Bill Jempty says:
  2. OzarkHillbilly says:

    Carrie Cunningham puffed out her cheeks and exhaled. She looked out at the audience filled with 2,000 of her peers, surgeons who were attending the annual meeting of the Association of Academic Surgery, a prestigious gathering of specialists from universities across the United States and Canada.

    Cunningham, president of the organization, knew what she was about to reveal could cost her promotions, patients and professional standing. She took a deep breath.

    “I was the top junior tennis player in the United States,” she began. “I am an associate professor of surgery at Harvard. But I am also human. I am a person with lifelong depression, anxiety, and now a substance use disorder.”

    The room fell silent.

    Longish, but worth the time to read it.

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  3. Tony W says:

    @OzarkHillbilly: Thanks for sharing this, fantastic article – and I think many of us see a little of ourselves, or somebody we know, in her story.

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  4. MarkedMan says:

    Yesterday’s finding that many Trump businesses are fraudulent and they must go into receivership serves as a coda to a lesson I learned in 2015/2016. At the time I said that Trump would not stay in the Primary race because even he could not be so stupid as to draw intense scrutiny to his business dealings. Those of us who followed NYC business news know Trump has been sketchy from the 80’s and after his bankruptcy virtually every business dealing he engaged in appeared to be either a con or money laundering. The typical reaction amongst longtime observers was amazement that he himself was never criminally indicted (although there were some cases where business associates got charged and he didn’t leading to speculation about possible deals).

    What was the lesson I learned? Well, back then I repeatedly said words to the effect, “The most important thing to know about Donald Trump is that he is a moron, but even he isn’t stupid enough to draw so much attention to his shady business dealings.” So it turns out that I got the first part right, but the second part epically wrong. Today, anytime I’m tempted to say, “Even Trump isn’t stupid enough to…”, I stop, and tell myself, “see part I”.

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  5. DeD says:
  6. charontwo says:

    @MarkedMan:

    Not just stupidity/cognitive impairment/senile dementia although there is that, there is also extreme narcissism as a factor.

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  7. OzarkHillbilly says:

    @Tony W: I’ve been dealing with depression all my life. So has my older sister and my elder brother. When it comes to my brother, I should put that in past tense. He killed himself this past June.

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  8. Tony W says:

    @OzarkHillbilly: I am so sorry man….no words.

    Best to you and your family.

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  9. OzarkHillbilly says:

    @Tony W: As I said at the time, for 24,241 days he fought off his demons. On the 24,242 day he decided he couldn’t do it anymore.

    I long ago decided that if a person was in that much pain, then suicide was a viable option. That was purely an intellectual exercise on my part, nothing I have ever considered. Despite all that, his death has hit me a lot harder than I thought at the time.

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  10. becca says:

    @OzarkHillbilly: my deepest condolences. So very sorry for your tragic loss.

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  11. charontwo says:

    Epistemic bubbles contrasted with echo chambers.

    Separate phenomena with very different mechanisms of entrenchment, and very deifferent in permanency.

    The early part of the paper is pretty familiar ideas, but progressively gets pretty interesting.

    https://philpapers.org/archive/NGUECA.pdf

    An abstract of the piece:

    https://philarchive.org/rec/NGUECA

    Recent conversation has blurred two very different social epistemic phenomena: echo chambers and epistemic bubbles. Members of epistemic bubbles merely lack exposure to relevant information and arguments. Members of echo chambers, on the other hand, have been brought to systematically distrust all outside sources. In epistemic bubbles, other voices are not heard; in echo chambers, other voices are actively undermined. It is crucial to keep these phenomena distinct. First, echo chambers can explain the post-truth phenomena in a way that epistemic bubbles cannot. Second, each type of structure requires a distinct intervention. Mere exposure to evidence can shatter an epistemic bubble, but may actually reinforce an echo chamber. Finally, echo chambers are much harder to escape. Once in their grip, an agent may act with epistemic virtue, but social context will pervert those actions. Escape from an echo chamber may require a radical rebooting of one’s belief system.

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  12. Steve says:

    Sorry for your loss Ozark. My brother-in-law killed himself after a long battle with depression. Didn’t help that some of the family didn’t accept him when he came out as gay. Wife and I always thought he would kill himself since he was so miserable. Wife still feels a bit guilty over it. Thinks she could have done more when in fact she was his biggest supporter.

    On the professional side it is more than just surgeons. Running a department that’s a 24/7 pretty intense operation I hear a lot of stories from people and it’s pretty amazing what people survive and keep coming to work. I hear stuff I thought only occurred in movies or novels. Have learned to not be so quick to judge people. There is often a story I don’t know.

    Steve

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  13. Kathy says:

    Episode 10 of Futurama was awesome.

    Spoiler free: The Professor creates a simulation of the universe, and we get to follow the simulated crew of Planet Express inside it.

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  14. MarkedMan says:

    Why did @SenTuberville
    vote against the next chairman of the Joint Chiefs?

    “I heard some things he talked about, about race and things that he wanted to mix into the military,” he told @BloombergTV
    . “Our military is not an equal opportunity employer.”

    The good people of Alabama elected this piece of work to represent them in the most powerful legislative body in the world. I don’t see how these voters would somehow elect a rational, intelligent and competent person if they had more choices.

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  15. DrDaveT says:

    @MarkedMan: This is probably what triggered him:

    “It is an incredible honor to be appointed as the Chair of the DACODAI. This year marks a historical event as the first committee to provide the Secretary of Defense with advice and recommendations to improve racial/ethnic diversity, inclusion, and equal opportunity as a force multiplier in the military. I look forward to working with my fellow committee members to help the Defense Department so that our national security is strengthened by the full participation of a diverse and inclusive environment with service members of every background,” stated Lyles.

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  16. charontwo says:

    Found at LGM:

    https://www.lawyersgunsmoneyblog.com/2023/09/isnt-it-pretty-to-think-so

    Schumer is no dummy, and I have no doubt that he’s doing precisely what Goldberg assumes he’s doing, which is to try to find some way of convincing Menendez to quit.

    What Goldberg never mentions is that Menedez can’t be expelled without the cooperation of at least a third of the GOP Senate caucus! What in the world makes her imagine that this will be forthcoming under the circumstances — the circumstances being politics in the US of A in the fall of 2023? Menendez, of course, understand this perfectly well, which is why I would be astonished if he resigns.

    The larger point here is that we have a bunch of institutions in this country that depend on certain informal norms regarding what’s tolerable in order to function tolerably well. Such norms include:

    (1) You can’t run for president if you’re facing 91 criminal charges and just had all your business licenses revoked because you’re sleazier than the average televangelist.

    (2) You can’t be a SCOTUS justice if you continually takes a lot of bribe-y looking “gifts” from plutocrats who are lobbying to reverse SCOTUS precedents that interfere with their money-gathering activities.

    (3) You can’t be in the US Senate if there are a lot of days when you can’t reliably remember exactly where you are or what you’re doing at the moment, because you’re increasingly demented.

    Here I’d like to insert Bill Paxton’s line from Aliens about a failure to keep up with current events, because THIS SYSTEM ISN’T WORKING ANY MORE.

    At all.

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  17. DK says:

    @charontwo: “The system isn’t working” arguments assume Americans are potted plants. We are not.

    Voters do not have to vote for or support Trump. They choose to.

    Voters do not have to nominate or re-elect Gold Bars Mendendez.

    Voters do not have to vote for Marjorie Taylor-Greene, Matt Gaetz, Lauren Boebert, or Tommy Tuberville.

    The system is not working because too many American voters are amoral and idiotic. American voters get away with being amoral and iditioc because rather than hold each other to account, we use “moralism” as a pejorative and use “economic anxiety” to justify bigotry and stupidity, because “shame doesn’t work.” Yes it does. It’s just not comfortable.

    As the idiom goes, I have seen the enemy, and he is us. We choose to make bad choices. We are the system. We have the system we deserve.

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  18. EddieInCA says:

    @MarkedMan:

    I said the exact same thing in 2015. I knew, from all my finance friends in NYC, how toxic he was to the entire NY banking world. Everyone in NYC knew he was a joke. Winning the presidency might have been Trump’s biggest mistake.

    As MR has said, he’s going to die penniless, maybe in prison. I’ll dance a f**king jig on the day he passes.

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  19. gVOR10 says:

    @charontwo: Interesting. I read, well skimmed, the paper.

    Echo chambers work by systematically isolating their members from all outside epistemic sources …. This mechanism bears a striking resemblance to some accounts of cult indoctrination.

    Good morning, Michael.

    The author did an article in Aeon magazine a few years ago. Briefer and aimed at a general audience.

    The author notes that in discussion of how to deal with epistemic closure most writers offer solutions to an epistemic bubble. It’s very difficult, and very rare, for anyone to break out of an echo chamber. Difficult for the participants to even recognize their situation. At the end of the paper where some plan for solution is expected, as is all too common, the author offers vague hope and hand waving. I fear my conclusion is that once people are in the RW echo chamber there’s no realistic way to get them out. They’re going to have to be isolated and bypassed.

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  20. gVOR10 says:

    @EddieInCA:

    Everyone in NYC knew he was a joke.

    So NYT, and WAPO, treated his clownish criminality as old news, not worth repeating. And here we are.

  21. gVOR10 says:

    @DK:

    The system is not working because too many American voters are amoral and idiotic.

    For a more charitable explanation see @charontwo: and @gVOR10: . I would add that piles of Billionaire Boys Club money has been spent, with malice aforethought, creating the echo chamber those voters are in.

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  22. charontwo says:

    @gVOR10:

    Many voters are predisposed to enter their echo chambers by their cultural traditions, as can be seen by the geography (rural, southern. midwestern) of where this behavior is most prevalent.

    (obviously, a lot of cultures can produce such behavior, as can be seen in places like Brooklyn and Rockland Country as another example).

    ETA: As the articles point out, kids raised in such cultures, such as many home-schooled kids, can find it hard to break out.

  23. Michael Reynolds says:

    @DK:

    The system is not working because too many American voters are amoral and idiotic.

    Bingo.

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  24. Scott says:

    @DrDaveT: I worked for Les Lyles back in the early 90s when he was a 1 star (he made 4 stars). Generals can be a mixed bag to work for but he is near the top of the list in my book. One of the smartest people I’ve met.

  25. DK says:

    @gVOR10:

    I would add that piles of Billionaire Boys Club money has been spent, with malice aforethought, creating the echo chamber those voters are in.

    …the echo chambers that those voters are (making an active and affirmative choice to participate) in. Yes, you are right.

    It’s in my nature as a once and future behavioral psychologist to not let people pretend they do not have agency when they quite clearly do. Much of my time in therapy is spent persistently reframing passive client statements in the language of choice, until they can no longer deny the control they have over their thoughts, mental health, problems, and behavior.

    We Americans left, right, and center love to pass the buck, blame shift to amorphous sources (the Deep State, the System), look for saviors, play victim, and complain about why others should be doing what we want done. Tale as old as time.

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  26. gVOR10 says:

    Political Wire quotes a Tom Nichols piece at Atlantic, American Democracy Requires a Conservative Party (paywalled). I didn’t become aware of Nichols until recently. The piece strengthens my initial impression that he is a slow learner. He writes of his own anti-Trump “conservative” views,

    I believe in public order as a prerequisite for politics; I respect tradition, and I am reluctant to acquiesce to change too precipitously; I think human nature is fixed rather than malleable; I am suspicious of centralized government power; I distrust mass movements. To contrast these with progressivism, I think most folks on the left, for example, would weigh social justice over abstract commitments to order, be more inclined to see traditions as obstacles to progress, and regard mass protests as generally positive forces.

    So he’s contrasting his views with his idea of “progressivism”, not with the Democratic Party. Republicans have absented themselves from governance, so any issue actually being adjudicated is being adjudicated within the Democratic Party, and the centrist wing is doing a fine job of representing Nichols’ idealized “conservatism”.

    But I will give Nichols credit for one delicious line,

    Meanwhile, the New York Times opinion writer Michelle Cottle today profiled Ohio Senator J. D. Vance, a man who has called his opponents “degenerate liberals” and who is so empty of character that even Mitt Romney can’t stand him.

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  27. Michael Reynolds says:

    @DK:

    It’s in my nature as a once and future behavioral psychologist to not let people pretend they do not have agency when they quite clearly do.

    Exactly. Was someone holding your children hostage? No? Then whatever choice you made was your choice, your responsibility. I have a lot to take responsibility for and I do. If you get the credit for the good decisions, take the blame for the bad ones.

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  28. MarkedMan says:

    @gVOR10:

    So NYT, and WAPO, treated his clownish criminality as old news, not worth repeating.

    I don’t think that’s fair at all. Both papers extensively reported on Trump’s business dealings, past and present. You can’t blame the papers for the fact that a) most people ignore financial stuff, b) many people simply don’t care. They did their job and I wouldn’t be surprised if the AG got a lot of leads from that reporting.

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  29. steve says:

    My ex-father-in-law was VP of an architectural firm in Philly that. got screwed when they did some work for Trump in NJ. I think it’s been very clear for a long time and there has been stuff covering it in the NYT and other places that the guy is a crooked NYC real estate person. It always amazed me that he got away with it but as much as I don’t like him and he comes across to me as a total con man, it is clear that he is good at some things. He is good at picking out his marks and who will buy into the image he portrays. He is good at self promotion. It’s also pretty clear that he has been good at legal stuff. He sues and gets sued a lot. I honestly can’t tell if this is because he has good/lots of legal help or if this is just the result of the connections he has built up starting with what his father developed. I always assumed if it got to his court where his connections didn’t matter he would be in trouble. However, just because he appears to have lost this round that doesn’t mean the appellate judges wont be old buddies. I also think that if he manages to get this up to SCOTUS he walks.

    Steve

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  30. Kathy says:

    @steve:

    He does seem really good at being a terrible person and lying about it.

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  31. just nutha says:

    @MarkedMan: The citizens of ‘Bama wanted a bigot to be their representative in the Senate and elected him. Easy as that.

  32. just nutha says:

    @gVOR10: My theory is that people don’t break out of echo chambers because they don’t get trapped in them to begin with. They enter of their own free will for specific reasons.

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  33. EddieInCA says:

    @Kathy:
    @just nutha:
    @DK:

    How does one even reach people who think Trump is more a “Person of Faith” than Pence or Romney? WTF?

    Poll: Republicans see Trump as a ‘person of faith’ … more so than Mitt Romney, Mike Pence and Others

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  34. Kathy says:

    Finally the latest Win11 update brought in the option never to combine taskbar buttons. Now it looks like a proper desktop.

    It was driving me crazy switching between two Excel windows. I kept clicking, moving o an empty spot to the left and clicking, mistaking other windows for the one I wanted, etc.

    This has been an issue at least since WinXP, if not earlier. In that one there were no labeled miniatures, but the button expanded upwards to show what else was open. I recall trying it, and not being able to work at a decent pace.

    The option to never combine taskbar buttons has been there in all subsequent Windows releases: Vista, 7, and 10. I can’t comprehend why it didn’t come off the box in Win11.

  35. Gustopher says:

    @DK:

    It’s in my nature as a once and future behavioral psychologist to not let people pretend they do not have agency when they quite clearly do. Much of my time in therapy is spent persistently reframing passive client statements in the language of choice, until they can no longer deny the control they have over their thoughts, mental health, problems, and behavior.

    I think of the echo chambers as akin to the obesity epidemic. It is possible for a person to make better choices, but all of the default options are set against that. Unless it becomes a priority, most people will just go with the defaults because they have limited energy and are dealing with other things.

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  36. Kathy says:

    News just keeps getting better regarding El Cheeto. Not for him, but for the rest of the world.

    In this piece of analysis in The Guardian, William Black, described as “a white-collar criminologist, corporate fraud investigator and distinguished scholar in residence for financial regulation at the University of Minnesota law school,” and who helped expose wrongdoing at Lincoln Savings and Loans, contributes this:

    “Trump is monumentally, stupidly greedy in that he isn’t actually paying for a number of key lieutenants in terms of their legal needs, and they’re facing financial collapse of their own, [such as] the Rudy Giulianis of this world. But a lot of folks can sink Trump.

    “Having this ability to control all these assets, even if they’re massively overvalued, meant hope springs eternal among the Trump folks that he can use that money and influence to help them, but if Trump instead ends up bereft of control over the overwhelming bulk of his assets, and has lots of liabilities, sugar daddy goes away.”

    I fervently hope he’s on to something.

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  37. gVOR10 says:

    @MarkedMan: I will have to respectfully disagree. Following Eddie, I was specifically thinking about 2015 and 16. The lefty press talked about Trump’s shady past and I recall at least one good New Yorker article, but not much from NYT or WAPO.

    As FTFNYT is something of an obsession of mine, and not wanting to tar them if my memory is faulty, I searched NYT’s online archive. A search for “clinton email” turns up 1,614 hits from 1/1 thru 11/1/2016, most of which presumably have something to do with Hillary’s email. In the same date range “trump crime” gets 705 hits. Spot checking a couple months of those using titles and summaries, I find no mention of Trump’s suspected criminal history, only three then current stories about him insulting the judge in the Trump U case. And one about Hillary and Bill.

    I’ll stand by my recollection of little coverage in the MSM of Trump’s shady past, along with remembering lefty commentary at the time complaining about the absence. Even Trump’s foundation, later to be proven corrupt, got very little coverage compared to the deep dives NYT did into the Clintons’ squeaky clean foundation. And I’ll link to an LGM post, not for the story, just for the pictured front page of NYT a week or so before the 2016 election. James Comey and FTFNYT elected Trump.

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  38. steve says:

    Kathy- Futurama is very underrated. Good stories and great one-liners. Since we like to cook watch the one where Bender takes up cooking if you have not done so yet. Great take off on Emeril and some wonderful one-liners.

    Steve

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  39. Just nutha ignint cracker says:

    @EddieInCA: One doesn’t. Thinking that way is making the same mistake Evangelicals make: that if they come up with the “right” sales pitch(s), everyone will buy their product. I happen to think this one is similar to MR’s obsession with tactics in political argument. You simply have to accept that some people disagree, for whatever reasons they have, and do what you believe is best. Consistently*.

    *Which is another problem altogether.

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  40. DrDaveT says:

    @just nutha:

    My theory is that people don’t break out of echo chambers because they don’t get trapped in them to begin with. They enter of their own free will for specific reasons.

    ObligatorySFRef: “Unstable Orbits in the Space of Lies” by Greg Egan.

    Without for a moment denying the reality of free will, I think several posters in this thread are greatly overestimating how much practical ability most people have to step outside their conditioning. The extreme effectiveness of intergenerational transmission of religion is powerful evidence that exercising actual free will is rare.

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  41. Just nutha ignint cracker says:

    @Kathy: He’s probably onto something, but it may not be as important as it seems. I suspect that Trump probably isn’t rich enough to be ” paying for a number of key lieutenants in terms of their legal needs.” His business and financial “empire” may well be more of a Ponzi scheme (with himself as the mark–how ironic is that?), than either a business or even a tax swindle.

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  42. OzarkHillbilly says:

    @EddieInCA: Their Christianity is as fake as their fealty to the Constitution.

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  43. Kathy says:

    @steve:

    I’ve seen all eps. I loved it since it debuted late in 1999. I had a bit of trouble seeing during the first (second?) revival, as the channel that showed it here had an erratic schedule. Eventually I caught all on streaming.

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  44. Just nutha ignint cracker says:

    @DrDaveT:

    I think several posters in this thread are greatly overestimating how much practical ability most people have to step outside their conditioning.

    I agree that conditioning plays a distinct role in what people can do. In my case, it’s just my skepticism about how all-encompassing behaviorism is that makes me wonder how conditioning works and to what extent.

    The extreme effectiveness of intergenerational transmission of religion is powerful evidence that exercising actual free will is rare.

    This particular cohort, with its high numbers of “I used to be X when I was growing up…” stories would seem to argue against this point. We might be a unique cohort on this question, but that’s not my experience.

    Religion is difficult to do well. And seems easy to abandon, in practice, when one is not good at it. My take is the biases so ascribed are held on a basis other than conditioning, but, as I said, I’m not a behaviorist.

  45. Just nutha ignint cracker says:

    @OzarkHillbilly: Well, yes. But to reframe Dr. DaveT’s question, is the fakery conditioned or a demonstration of free will? 😉

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  46. SC_Birdflyte says:

    @OzarkHillbilly: Alas, he left all those who loved him with a legacy of pain. Our sympathies go out to you.

  47. anjin-san says:

    Just when you think you’ve seen every shitty thing imaginable…

    Young Black gymnast appears to be snubbed during medal ceremony in Ireland

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  48. Kathy says:

    @Just nutha ignint cracker:

    That, and he’s as likely to part with money as with a vital organ.

    Of course, now it seems more natural, seeing as he has little money by rich white guy standards.

  49. steve says:

    Drum has a nice piece hope Dr T sees claiming that the cost of college tuition and fees basically has not changed over the last 30 years. Schools list increasing total costs then give students “grants” with the result that for the average student costs have not changed. Average does some work here as it means some students in some cases actually do pay the higher published fees, but most don’t. Struck as nonsense at first but the numbers are there and certainly fits with the experience of many we know, where schools have high list prices but get big discounts. (Drum cites Currell at National Affairs for the origins of this work.)

    https://jabberwocking.com/the-cost-of-college-has-barely-changed-in-the-past-30-years/#comments

    Steve

  50. charontwo says:

    @gVOR10:

    James Comey and FTFNYT elected Trump.

    James Comey was being influenced by the FBI New York office. Specifically by some FBI guy, McGonigal, who was a Russian stooge, being paid by Russia. We have Pooty to thank for Trump, not just the NYT.

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  51. DK says:

    @Gustopher:

    Unless it becomes a priority, most people will just go with the defaults because they have limited energy and are dealing with other things.

    This is true.

    There’s also people — lots of them — who are not good people.

    Others are scared of the unknown, and change often involves unknowns.

    Some people vote for amoral defaults because they are selfish and benefit from a unethical status quo.

    No one likes to admit it, but there’s lots of men who see themselves as benefitting from misogyny, or whites who see the benefits of white supremacy. And they are not smart enough to consider how these short-term gains cause long term loss. They are just not intelligent enough to see the long term benefits of racial and gender equality and how more justice and domestic tranquility will make us all wealthier and safer.

    Amoral + stupid. (And weak.)

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  52. MarkedMan says:

    @gVOR10: Google “NYTimes coverage of Trumps finances”. Here’s one off the top. And another. And another. And ano -whoops, I could go on all day but it would take me over the link limit. Note that all the linked ones are part of series with multiple lengthy pieces. And you can narrow it down year by year going back to 2016 and you will find many more in each year.

    I imagine that “Trump Crime” doesn’t uncover them because he’s never been convicted of a crime and so the press wouldn’t use that.

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  53. MarkedMan says:

    Can someone get me out of Comment Jail? I must have gone over the link limit in my reply to gVOR10

  54. DK says:

    @EddieInCA:

    How does one even reach people who think Trump is more a “Person of Faith” than Pence or Romney?

    Michael Cohen’s come to Jesus moment was his dad telling him, ‘I did not survive the Holocaust to have Donald Trump destroy my family name.

    Listening to Cassidy Hutchinson make the rounds the past few days, it’s clearly she’s horrified at her past as a Trump true believer.

    Contra to pop psychology, shame can work. It’s just another form of accountability.

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  55. DK says:

    @DrDaveT:

    I think several posters in this thread are greatly overestimating how much practical ability most people have to step outside their conditioning.

    Nobody said change is always easy. I admire the instinct to understand and give benefit of doubt, but decent, well-meaning are sometimes too ready too let bad political actors off the hook. Doubly so when such people are of a lower class, due pastoral myths that romanticize the so-called common man.

    Growing up as I did in suburban/exurban Georgia with the types of people who sent Newt Gingrich and Marjorie Taylor-Greene to Congress, I am less sanguine about the inherent virtues of the working class. A lot of those I grew up with are nice, sweet people — good Christian conservatives with standard issue human flaws and blindspots. Like me and everyone.

    But a lot are just plain ole assholes. Phony, hypocritical, selfish and bigoted. It’s not any more complicated than that. J.D. Vance of Appalachia made a career of calling out people like this, til Peter Thiel converted him into a MAGA grufter.

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  56. Pylon says:

    @steve: Trump isn’t good at legal stuff once it gets to court – he loses most of his cases – even before his political career. What he’s good at is grinding the litigation and making his less well-heeled opponents go broke on legal fees. Not so easy when he’s facing the DOJ.

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  57. DrDaveT says:

    @Just nutha ignint cracker:

    This particular cohort, with its high numbers of “I used to be X when I was growing up…” stories would seem to argue against this point.

    There are several religions that have been around for centuries and have hundreds of millions (even billions) of adherents, vanishingly few of whom changed religions or adopted religion for the first time as adults. That’s extremely effective transmission; a virus would die of envy.

    Yes, we are the outliers.

  58. DrDaveT says:

    @DK:

    I admire the instinct to understand and give benefit of doubt, but decent, well-meaning are sometimes too ready too let bad political actors off the hook.

    I get that — but that’s the same logic that gets you to “my bigotry is justified because those people are just like that.” No thanks. I want to understand why people are the way they are, the better to make them better in the future. And a big piece of the way they are is habit and conditioning.

    Just to be clear: I do not confuse explanation with excuse. Understanding the causal path by which someone became a shitty person does not excuse their shittiness — but it does offer clues to how to make the world less shitty in the future.

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  59. CSK says:

    @OzarkHillbilly:
    You have my sympathies for the loss of your brother.

  60. DK says:

    @DrDaveT:

    I get that — but that’s the same logic that gets you to “my bigotry is justified because those people are just like that.” No thanks.

    This is just bothsidesm. Extremists and their enablers love to equate bigots and their targets, to try to silence the latter.

    No, calling out white supremacists is not the same as white supremacy. No, holding homophobes accountable is not the same as homophobia. No, it is not bigoted to tell the truth about the amorality and stupidity of fascists and extemists.

    No thanks to false equivalency. Equating the targets of bigotry with its perpetrators does not improve the world.

    Insight and behavior change are not the same thing. The pop version of psychology is a person suddenly remembers they were abused as a child, and voila –they’re cured.

    In real life, most understand their problematic behaviors; this does not automatically inspire change. Substance abusers know exactly why they drink or use. PTSD suffers know the source of their trauma. Knowing why is not an antidote. Not for alcoholism, not for depression and anxiety, and not for hatred and political extremism.

    Change starts with accountability for one’s choices and actions. Blame shifting does not help.

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  61. Michael Reynolds says:

    @DrDaveT: @DK:

    Change starts with accountability for one’s choices and actions. Blame shifting does not help.

    In my personal experience character growth comes from having fucked up, then acknowledging you fucked up, and trying to unfuck whatever you fucked. Sometimes it happens very quickly, like when they put shackles on you. A clarifying moment. Other times it’s slow as you realize, generally in debate, that you’re losing too many points to go on pretending you’re right. Sometimes it’s a bit of both – you read a comment or an article, or just overhear some remark and you get that feeling that you just heard some truth and you should look into it.

    But what is required as a predicate to any growth is a devotion (sorry to use a religious word) to truth. The truth, not my truth, the truth of science and math and reason and evidence and examined experience, all while acknowledging the near inevitability of mistakes and the impossibility of perfection. This is how corny I am: I actually sat down a few decades back* and asked myself which of the virtues I thought was most important. It was capital T truth. Without truth there’s nothing worth anything.

    As unobtainable goals go, it’s pretty good.

    *Conveniently immediately after I stopped needing to lie.

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  62. DrDaveT says:

    @DK:

    This is just bothsidesm. Extremists and their enablers love to equate bigots and their targets, to try to silence the latter.

    No, calling out white supremacists is not the same as white supremacy. No, holding homophobes accountable is not the same as homophobia. No, it is not bigoted to tell the truth about the amorality and stupidity of fascists and extemists.

    I have no idea who you are responding to here, but it isn’t me. I did not say anything remotely like these things. Try again.

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  63. DeD says:
  64. Jay L Gischer says:

    I’m good friends with a woman who was in the religious bubble as a child and has broken out now. She is quite upset about the overt attempts she sees (textbooks in Florida, for instance) at maintaining it. She says that if you are raised in it, it can be very, very hard to break out. Mostly, you can’t even process “the real world” according to her.

    Not that it’s impossible, but it’s really hard. They have explanations for everything and reasons to distrust all outside authority.

    Traditionally, the way groups like that were eliminated is via death and slow leakage. Sometimes by wars and pogroms and yes, genocide.