Marine Chooses Wedding Ring Over Finger

Marine Chooses Wedding Ring Over Finger (AP)

When Marine Lance Cpl. David Battle learned he’d either have to sacrifice his ring finger or the wedding band he wore, he told doctors at a field hospital in Iraq to cut off the finger. The 19-year-old former high school football star suffered a mangled left hand and serious wounds to his legs in a Nov. 13 fire fight in Fallujah. Battle, who is recovering at his parents’ home in this desert city 80 miles northeast of Los Angeles, came under attack as he and fellow Marines entered a building. Eleven other Marines were wounded.

Doctors were preparing to cut off Battle’s ring to save as much of his finger as they could. “But that would mean destroying my wedding ring,” he said. “My wife is the strongest woman I know. She’s basically running two people’s lives since I’ve been gone. I don’t think I could ever repay her or show her how grateful … how much I love my wife, my soul mate.”

With his approval, doctors severed his finger, but somehow in the chaos that followed, they lost his ring. Although Battle was disappointed, his wife, Devon, said she was honored. “I can’t believe he did that,” she said. “At first I was mad when he told me, but then I realized how lucky I am to have him in my life.”

Very sweet. But damn, it’s just a piece of jewelry, man. The ring isn’t the marriage, it’s only a symbol.

FILED UNDER: Iraq War, Military Affairs
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Comments

  1. David Harris says:

    Nice work, Frodo. Touching story, though.

  2. dw says:

    My father-in-law once had to make the same choice when his ring was caught on a piece of machinery. He snipped the ring and never regretted it. My in-laws have been married for 52 years.

  3. Marines are nicknamed “jarheads” for a reason.